As we get older we will understand more and more that in life it’s not bout how we look or what we own, it is about the person i have become.
That quote is so true it’s not about our looks or what we own as in house, cars, property, the amount of money in the account.
But we live exactly the opposite to that, i know i don’t turn heads when i walk into a place, and i’m sure worried about my looks sometimes more now that i’m older..Half of my stress was haven no money and the thought of haven no assets in life, with knowing my retirement fund is not worth shit on the paper it’s written on.
The beauty of life, is while we cannot undo what is done, we can see it, understand it, learn from it and change so that every new moment is spent not in regret, guilt, fear or anger but in wisdom,
I believe it would take a life time to understand life, when you think about it every one’s lives are so different through the world.. Depends in what country you are born it can be horribly different or very rewarding for me the concept of being born, teens, adult hood, grand parents and then dead..what ever is that i achieved in life.. i can’t take with me any way the money i have in my account, it stay’s there or i give to a family member or to a church or animal welfare, but i don’t take it with me.
Adjustment is not important in life.. But understanding is more important in life.
I do believe every thing is for a purpose in life, being out of work building finical problems, getting miserable with life, and then score a good job.. don’t know or what the purpose of that was but it happened. .. do i try to understand my life and the purpose of being here, no i don’t because i can’t, so i work with my experiences, enjoy the kids, grandson family and friends.. With learning to understand my life, and the understanding of life.
The biggest communication problem is we do not listen to understand.
We listen to reply.
Sometime, looking over the past gives you a better understanding of life, an indication of where you have reached, a learning on how to do better in future.
At the moment i’m learning to understand life, my life in what i have done, what has made me, what can i do better, what is my purpose of life… The answers do only lie with means.. of the 61 years i have had with life with the next 20 or 30 to come.